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Family: Meades Anderson Kirby / Sarah "Sally" C. Word (F518494808)  [1, 2

m. 22 Dec 1823


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  • Father | Male
    Meades Anderson Kirby

    Born  Abt 1790  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  1884  Prob. Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Married  22 Dec 1823  [3]  Halifax County, Virginia  [3] Find all individuals with events at this location
    Other Spouse  Rebecca Miller | F7621 
    Married     
    Father  Richard Kirby/Kearby | F518495908 Group Sheet 
    Mother  Alice Anderson | F518495908 Group Sheet 

    Mother | Female
    Sarah "Sally" C. Word

    Born  Abt 1803  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Yes, date unknown  Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Father   
    Mother   

    Child 1 | Female
    Mary Ann Kirby

    Born  Est 1825  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Yes, date unknown   
    Buried     

    Child 2 | Female
    Elizabeth Kirby

    Born  Est 1826  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Yes, date unknown   
    Buried     

    Child 3 | Male
    Jeremiah Kirby

    Born  Abt 1830  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Yes, date unknown  Missouri Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     

    Child 4 | Female
    + Martha Frances Kirby

    Born  1824  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  1911  Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Spouse  Turner Carter | F22754 
    Married  7 Aug 1849  Halifax County, Virginia (MB1/187) Find all individuals with events at this location

    Child 5 | Female
    + Sarah Virginia 'Sally' Kirby

    Born  1834  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  1904  Muhlenberg Co., KY Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     
    Spouse  Joseph E. Farmer | F7622 
    Married     

    Benjamin Word KirbyChild 6 | Male
    + Benjamin Word Kirby

    Born  11 Jul 1839  Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  3 Sep 1910  Person, N. Carolina Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried    Clement Baptist Church Cemetery, Person County, North Carolina Find all individuals with events at this location
    Spouse  Caroline Graves Carter | F22729 
    Married  28 Nov 1859  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location

    Child 7 | Female
    Frances H. Kirby

    Born  Est 1843  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Bef 1850  Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Buried     

    Child 8 | Female
    Nancy "Nannie" Graves Kirby

    Born  Abt 1845  Halifax Co., Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location
    Died  Yes, date unknown   
    Buried     
    Spouse  William George Carter | F22730 
    Married  21 Dec 1859  Halifax County, Virginia Find all individuals with events at this location

  • Notes  Married:
    • Children of Meades and Sallie Kirby;
      Elizabeth Kirby (-)
      Jeremiah Kerby (1824-)
      Martha R Kirby (1831-)
      Mary Kirby (1833-)
      Sarah T Kirby (1834-)
      Ben W Kirby (1839-1910)
      Frances H Kirby (1843-)

  • Sources 
    1. [S61] United States Census, 1870 Virginia Halifax Co., Black Walnut.
      Sarah Kirby 67, Mary 40, Martha Carter 38, Nannie Carter 25 Charles Dixon 24 Farm Labour, Sallie 20 Keeping House
      This is the Household of Meades Anderson Kirby and Sarah 'Sally' Word.

    2. [S160] Correspondence, George Kirby.
      Description: What Happened to Turner Carter

      the Kirby family lore has it that Jeremiah Kirby shot his brother-in-law - turner carter.
      Jeremiah then fled to Missouri.
      Jeremiah was the son of Meades Anderson Kirby and Sallie C. Kirby and brother to Martha Kirby Carter.
      Turner Carter married Martha R. Kirby 8/6/1849 bonded by Sally Kirby and Carter. Turner married Martha K. Kirby 8/7/1847
      Turner was killed by the gun shot. Somewhere I had a letter from another Kirby describing the altercation. I'll have to look around the house for it.
      Jerimiah (Jerry) Kirby fled to Saline County Missouri after 11/22/1856 according to my dad's notes. His age is listed as 26 in the 1850 census so he was born around 1824.
      I remember my dad telling me that Jerimiah was hidden in a trunk after the shooting by Richard Kirby who was the sheriff in Pittsylvania County.

      Just found the letter from Eva Kirby Cresp relating to Jerimiah Kirby. In the early 70's my father's sister, Clara Francis Cobb, and I went to visit an elderly cousin, Caroline Carter. During this visit, cousin Caroline told us that she had once received a visit from a woman from Missouri that had come to N.C. in search of information about her grand farther or great grandfather. He was Jeremiah Kirby.
      The story as it was told. Jerry had a sister who married a pretty good guy until he started drinking and then he became violent. He had unmercifully beaten his wife (Jerry's sister) many times very badly and during one of these times of drinking, she ran to her brother's home badly blody and clothes torn from her body. When the husband [Turner] arrived at Jerry's home, he demanded his wife to be sent out to him. Refusing to do so until he sobered up. He then went out back to Jerry's wood pile and removed the axe. He then began to break the door in so Jerry shot in self defense to save himself and his sister? He felt that he would be hung for murder so he left home. He was last seen riding away on his horse with his little dog running along beside the horse and was never heard from again until this granddaughter came in search for geneology and info on her grandfather's family.
      Jerry died of old age in Kansas City Missouri. He had worked as a jailer in Kansas City Missouri. He had married and had a family there.

      I found the following information in the LDS library but didn't record the reference
      Jerry married Eliza Jane Higgins on 11/20/1866
      Jerry is listed as having two daughers Alice B. Kirby 9/10/1874 and Virginia Lee Kirby 9/10/1874 in St. Peters, Marshall Missouri.
      I was told he became a sheriff in Missouri. He and his daughters came back to visit Virginia sometime after my grandfather George Kirby was born.

      But why did he flee to Missouri?
      Well Meades Anderson Kirby (his father) brother Benjamin Kirby was living in Missouri.

      Meades married Sally Word on 12/22/1823 and his brother Benjamin had previously married Sally's sister Elizabeth Word on 11/4/1822.
      Brothers marrying sisters seems to be a common occurance in the 1700's and 1800's in the Kirby family.
      These marriages are found in the Halifax County's marriage records.
      Elizabeth and Sally's father William Word was commissioned by James Monroe and/or James Madison to build bridges in Halifax County, Va.

      My dad's notes has Benjamin and Elizabeth living in Calloway County Missouri in 1849 but don't know when they went - between 1822 and 1849. Calloway county is the adjoining county to Saline County.
      In the 1850 census of Calloway county Elizabeth Kirby 56 born in Va Joesph W. Kirby 26 born in Va Jno(?) Kirby 16 born in Va Caroline Kirby 14 born in Va Ann W. Richardson 23 born in Va
      Ann E. Richardson 3 born in Mo.
      gckirby3@gmail.com

    3. [S46] Marriage Record/Certificate.
      Bondsman, Richard Kirby